After 40 years it still does not heal right. Making Culture Pop. Favorite Saving…. General Relationship Discussion. Get in her in a good mood One of the keys to getting your girl to try anal sex with you involves getting her relaxed and in as good of a mood as possible. Anal sex is a pleasurable experience that requires trust and intimacy with your partner. Remove Advertisements.
Frank Grimes New Member. Kylie84 likes this. Vaseline or any other synthetic lubricant is essential you can find very good lubricating oils online or in pharmacies. Maybe this thread should be dedicated to wild positions for vaginal sex, or at least non-anal sex. Show her how much you appreciate her willingness to let you into every one of her holes.
Choose a water-based lubricant that will make the act of having anal sex as smooth and painless as possible for her. Use lubricant to make it more comfortable. YourTango may earn an affiliate commission if you buy something through links featured in this article. Most girls are very hesitant to do anal sex, so they need some convincing. Does she have any sexual fantasies of her own? Perhaps you could try some self insertion and let her watch, that way she may be convinced that your interest is genuine.