Woman E: Over time, you know what to expect and how to enjoy it. You probably want to have her riding your cock at first so she can ease herself onto it. Sex is supposed to be a fun, no-pressure activity where the goal is for everyone to get off and have a good time. And she needs to enjoy it as much as you do. Fingers are an ideal way to gain initial entry without causing too much pain, and your tongue is your greatest ally. Be patient and bring it up again in the future. Speaking of
Even if you ejaculate onto her like you said there is 0 chance that the sperm will make it all the way to an egg. Here's what you're missing out on! Also, being too rough can and does cause prolapse. I think it goes without saying that fecal matter in your vagina is a bad idea.
No lube because it takes away YOUR pleasure? If the woman rubs her vulva hard as entry happens it will more likely be pleasurable. Comment by lola on October 8, am. He occasionaly would mention it, but never pushed and probably only mentioned it times over the course of several years. As I mentioned above, if you feel uncomfortable or experience any type of pain stop and allow your sphincter muscle to relax around his cock.
No matter how keen you are or how hard you coax, your wife may never be into it. Maybe try a second time if you really want to, but if it isn't for you, it isn't for you. Woman D: Over time, you adjust. To help her get used to it, start with light butt play before you try penetration, says McBride. Follow Anna on Twitter. There are some positions that are better than others for anal sex.